Balance with Karate Kid


Learning Balance With Karate Kid

You know…………..I’ve been watching Cobra Kai lately, and because of that, also the entire Karate Kid series. I included Part 3, and usually, you couldn’t pay enough me money to watch that.

Upon watching Cobra Kai, there’s a scene in the show that stands out to me. It’s a scene where Daniel goes to Mr. Miyagi’s grave, in the scene, he admits that he let his anger get the best of him. He also wondered if Mr. Miyagi went through the same thing, and wished he was alive. When he gets to his car, it cuts to a scene in the first Karate Kid movie, about balance. About how when you are weighed down by anger and bitterness, you have to search deep inside and look for the good in your life. When you find that balance, life will get better. Balance is needed for all aspects of your life, and this is a lesson you will go at head on for the rest of your life.


Like Daniel, I’ve found myself letting my anger and depression get the best of me. Focusing on one part of my life, and neglecting the other parts. Letting my anger towards certain people affect my decisions. Dwelling on the fact that I’m turning 20-10 in 6 months, and forgetting that I have a life. Being too indecisive about whether I want to be alone or be around people. Being too occupied with figuring out how to leave my current church, and planning out which one to go to when everything with COVID gets better. But forgetting to do the one thing I am suppose to do as a child of God, and have a relationship with him.

I wish I can say I have the answers, but the truth is I’m lost, and I know some of y’all feel that way. What I can do is be thankful I have a Heavenly Father that I can lean to when I’m lost. He always guided to where I needed to be, and I’m sure he will continue to do that.

And to those, like me, who are lost, I encourage you to do the same thing I’m gonna do. Seek God, cause when you seek God, he will help you find the balance that you need in your life.

“Never put Passion in front of Principle, even if you win, you lose”-Mr. Miyagi

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Selective Perception by AntonioSeth

When I was a leader of my church’s youth group, I had the same kids come to me about the same things. What will get them into heaven, how to honor God in all you do, their problems in life, those things. Whenever I talk to those kids about their life problems and the things that bother them, I always ask the following question:

Are you seeing things in God’s Eyes or Your own eyes?

I constantly asked that question because if I know this current generation of young people; I know that they are gonna choose to see what they wanna see or see things that they think they remember, and react accordingly. In other words, Selective Perception. It’s common. Very common in this world. For example, Let’s say I’m a Michael Jordan fan. Let’s say I grew up watching him, saw all of his games. Massive fan. I wouldn’t care what people say about Lebron James. In my mind, Lebron is not better than MJ. You can tell me what ever you want, I’m not listening.

Now for the 98% of people reading this and have no clue about anything sports, let me flip it for you. Let’s say I was trying to park my car, and someone tries to go for the same parking spot I’m going for. Me and the other guy argue, and then a 3rd person comes in and tells me the other guy was there first. From there I would tell him that I don’t care what he says, it’s my spot. I was there first, I was closer to the spot, it’s mine.

Selective perception. Anyway, you could say that the question I asked earlier is very relevant in your life, in different ways.

How you view your problems?

Now, I know we are all going through a lot. It’s a crazy time. For me personally, it’s a lot to handle. My depression is kicking in from time to time, I’m constantly going crazy about how I’m gonna do when I officially start my new job in a few weeks, despite the fact that I had my welcome orientation and training a week before all the lockdowns happened. I’m constantly debating if I’m going back to my church or go to a new church once all the church services start to open up, given the fact that there was already problems between me and my home church before all of this craziness started happening.

Now with all of that said, there’s two ways of handling it. I could A) see things through that Selective Perception and push everyone away and run from my problems, and constantly be in a state of panic. Or B) see things through God’s Eyes, and see that I need to work out some of those problems before doing anything crazy.

How you view Society?

This is self explanatory.

A problem occurs with someone. I could see that person through your eyes, and think he’s a jerk that is irritating the heck out of me: or through God’s eyes and see that that person is angry and hurting and is simply reacting to a situation.

Or even in general, I could see people the way I want to see them. Ranging from “I love being around people” to “Ehhhh…… They’re alright. I don’t care” to “I extremely dislike everybody”. Or see them in God’s eyes and see that they all are (as said in Genesis) made in the image of God.

How do you see yourself?

I’ve been known to have very bad self esteem issues, of which I’m working on. At my lowest, I hated everything about myself, and constantly felt like a failure in everything I do. A lot of it stemmed from things that happened in the past. Being blamed for things I didn’t do, and just pushing people away because of it.

Anyway, I got to a point where I needed to see myself in God’s eyes, because the way I saw myself was toxic.

So I did. I went and pursued God. Through reading the Bible, going to church, surrounding myself with Godly people. As of now, I still don’t see myself as amazing or phenomenal as God does, but I don’t see myself the way I used to. All because I made a choice.

And that is what I’m getting at here. You always have a choice. It’s all about asking God to renew your mind and give you clarity. I leave you with two scriptures.

“As a man thinks in his heart so is he.” Proverbs 23:7

“Your eyes are windows into your body. If you open your eyes wide in wonder and belief, your body fills up with light.” Matthew 6:22(Message Bible)

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I’m Fine by AntonioSeth

If you had someone come up to you and ask how you are doing, two scenarios will likely happen.

  • One: You probably would go on a 5-minute soliloquy about how you just got a promotion, how your kids are excelling in school, and how you love your significant other.
  • Two: You just simply tell the person “I’m fine”. I fall on the latter, and I’m pretty sure some of you who are reading this do too. Now I could go on about the reasons why we just tell people we’re fine, but there’s too many reasons for me to go through, and I ain’t got time to do that. I’m going to tell you why I do that.

Part of it is because I’m not fond of talking to people. Another part is because of trust issues that I’ve been working on. Final part of it is that life made me that way. As a kid, I did well for myself. Decent grades, decent lifestyle, I can’t complain. Then when I turned 8, life happened. I found out why my dad wasn’t around, I found out how bad my autism is, people started looking at me funny and picking on me. Because of those things, I pushed people away, I guarded myself from anybody and everybody. I chose to be alone.

So fast forward tooooooo………. Now.

I find myself in the same position Job was when he lost everything. Now I’m not questioning God as Job did, but I am questioning why and how am I in the position that I’m in, like Job did. Now before you go and grab your pitch forks, please understand where I’m coming from. For months, I’ve been in a deep depression. It’s a combination of things: fear of getting older, fear of death, fear of not living to my potential, and anxiety of everything that is going on in the world. I constantly feel like I wasted my 20’s and I let it breeze by. Feeling like the prime of my life has passed. But despite my fears, anxieties, depression, and Job-like questioning, I still find myself trusting God and his process.

Now mind you, I still am not fond of talking to people. Matter of fact, when asked to blog on here, I initially was going to ignore it. Partly because I have my own blog to worry about. But mainly because, I couldn’t trust myself to open up to a lot of people. But even that, my love, trust & respect for God outweighs my own anxieties. So I’m on here to encourage you with this.

I don’t know you, never met you, don’t know your life story. But I have a feeling that some of you are in the same position that I am. You might be worried about what’s going on, you might be scared because of contacting the Coronavirus (yes, I said it), you might be worried about the next phase in your life. If you are one of those people, I say this. It’s okay to say, “I am not fine.” It’s okay to tell people that. Heck, it’s okay to tell God that. Matter of fact, he wants to hear from you. But what matters is you trusting God with everything in your life, giving your fears and anxieties to him, believing that he knows what he is doing. I mean, he does know what he’s doing.

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